Now that Darren and I are parents, we have an even greater desire to make sure that we focus on Christ during this crazy holiday season. Our church preschool director does a great job every year preparing an Advent devotional. I honestly had never heard the term advent until Nate was born and we received the Advent devotional. Advent means coming or arrival. We are really trying to focus on the coming/arrival of Christ and focus on His birth without getting too carried away with Santa and all of the commercialism of Christmas. This is hard. It's not hard to focus on Christ, but it is hard for me to not get carried away in all of the commercialism. I can think of so many things that I want to get Nate for Christmas. This honestly hasn't been a struggle for me until this year. This is the first year that Nate has really been aware of presents and Santa. This is the first year that I can think of lots and lots and lots of toys, games, books, etc that I know he will love. I am kidding myself if I think Nate won't care anything about toys every Christmas, but I also want him to get excited about celebrating advent - the birth of Christ, our only true source of hope and salvation in this world. I also want him to love and share with others. This won't happen if Darren and I don't model these behaviors for him. I am praying that God will change the desires of our heart and give us wisdom to handle situations.
I found this neat advent calendar several weeks ago. It has 24 tiny books that contain scriptural facts leading up to Christ's birth. Each night before bed, Nate gets to find the correct book and Darren or I read it to him. Then we discuss it and Nate gets to hang the book on the Christmas tree in his room. If you have older children (4 or 5 and up), you might want to check out this
link to creating a Jesse tree with your children. What are you doing to keep Christ the focus of Christmas...and every other day of the year? I would love to hear your ideas.