Last Friday, June 19
th, Nate had surgery to correct a communicating
hydrocele. The procedure is the same that is used to correct a hernia. Dr. Johnson noticed that there might be something going on at Nate's 18 month check-up. There wasn't an obvious problem and she was even on the fence about whether or not we needed to see a surgeon. We did finally decide to see a surgeon and get his opinion. The tricky thing about a communicating
hydrocele is that one day things may look fine and another day they may not. We saw the surgeon three times and each time we saw him things looked great. That's how it always works out, right? But we had noticed some differences at home that made the doctor think that Nate probably did need surgery. He still wasn't 100% sure that surgery was necessary, but the only way to know for sure was to make an incision in
Nate's belly button and insert a camera and see if things needed to be repaired. This was very hard for me - Darren, too; but more for me since I tend to worry
obsessively about things. It was hard because we didn't even know if surgery was necessary and it is not a condition that causes any pain or discomfort. But if not repaired it is very likely that Nate would have a hernia later in life that could be really painful and require a more invasive surgery. So, Nate was going to have to undergo anesthesia and we didn't even know if it was necessary...and I had almost 6 long weeks to dread it. During this 6 week period I would think is this really necessary? Should I just call and cancel this surgery and not put Nate at risk if it's not 100%
necessary? Almost every time I had those thoughts it would be pretty obvious that surgery was necessary. I know that these were not coincidences. God was allowing me to see a difference to give me peace about going ahead with the procedure and confirming that surgery was what was best for Nate. During this wait time we also had lots of friends and family praying for me and Darren, Nate and the surgeon. God was also speaking to me a lot about fear through Beth Moore's Esther study. (If you have the opportunity to participate in this study, do it!). I knew that I needed to take the courage that God offers all of us and trust his
sovereignty.
Finally, the day arrived and everything went so well. God granted me and Darren peace before and during the procedure. Nate did great. He didn't even cry when we passed him off to the guy that took him into the operating room. They took him back about 9:00 and Dr. Harmon came in about 10:15 to tell us how things went. There was indeed a hole that needed to be repaired just as we had suspected. We were so thankful that we had gone ahead with the surgery and had everything taken care of while Nate is young and will more than likely not remember any of it. We were home by 2:00 and Nate was back to 100% the next day. If he was sore, it didn't slow him down any. I mentioned in our beach post that Nate likes to rub his belly button when he's sleepy and we were really concerned that this would be an issue. Nate has done great. We explained to him that he has a boo boo on his belly button and he can't rub it right now. I was expecting lots of extra rocking and comforting to help him get to sleep, but that hasn't even been necessary.
I would obviously not want to go through this again, but this has been such a great opportunity to see how faithful God truly is. And if we have to deal with an issue like this in the future we know that we will see God's faithfulness again. Thanks again to everyone for all of your prayers!
Checking everything out

Rubbing his belly button one last time.

Trying to ride the food tray table

Our sweet preschool minister came to visit us and took this picture. You can see how tired Nate is and he hasn't even had surgery yet.

After the surgery